I’ve been teaching law enforcement and military leadership classes for years now. They are a lot like the people I teach with, but there are some that don’t get it. I often use the example of a scene from the movie The Untouchables. During the movie, Oscar Grant (played by Michael Shannon) is sitting around with his lawyer.
Oscar Grant is at a bar, drinking and talking to a woman. She approaches him and says, “You’re not coming with me.
He says he wasnt going to kill anybody, he was just talking to the woman. She retorts “Youre not going with me.