You know how you always knew you were going to be at some point in your life when you realized you had a sister inlaw that was a pain in the ass on some level? I have always just thought that I wouldn’t be the same person I was when I got married. Well, here I am in my late-thirties and have had to deal with my sister in law from day one.
I would think that the people I worked with in my life to be my ‘family’ was a bit of a joke, but my sister isnt a family in law.
The fact is, I could be having a bad day and bitch about my sister in law all I want, but the fact of the matter is that I have a family and that family is my sister in law. In fact, I have two families, one of which I have already had to deal with for a few years now.
It’s the little things that keep you from being in a relationship with your sister in law. It could be that your sister in law is a bit of a bitch, it could be that she’s not as intelligent as you, or it could be that she thinks you’re a complete idiot. All of those things are true, but I would actually argue that it’s just a matter of the type of person you are.
I have had a lot of trouble getting along with my sister in law over the years. The relationship between us has been tense and strained for a very long time. I remember how it felt when I was first introduced to her. I was a little shy when I first met her as well. I remember her being on the verge of screaming at me for not trying to be cute with her.
After the first time I got her into my house and she said, “You know what, I’m going to get the fuck out of your house.” She actually said, “No, you’re not going to get the fuck out of my house.
She was really pissed at me and I remember thinking, I wonder what she would do if she was with me right now. I guess I just had no idea how she would react. But the next time I saw her was when I took her to the beach. She was sitting there on the sand with all her clothes halfway off. We just kept talking and talking and talking. Then she said, Im so sorry I scared you.
I guess all the talking was worth it, though. After that conversation, I felt like maybe we could stay friends. That was a long time ago.
I have been in a relationship with my sister for about 3 years. It seems like our relationship is pretty special even though we never get to spend as much time together as we would like. I remember one of the first times I saw her was when we were riding our bikes to the beach. I remember sitting on the beach and telling her I love her. And then, we were just sitting there talking and talking and she said, I think that’s the best thing we ever did.
We could stay friends, but that moment was the perfect sign that we were falling in love.